I’ve been meaning to write for a while. I’m in that space where I haven’t been posting on instagram either. There’s so much to say. And. I don’t know. Too much. It’s after midnight. I should be going to sleep. And I hate posting on these days because Friday is a kindness post and Sunday is a sunshine post. I want to keep it that way.
I want to wrote properly but will share a couple Instagram posts about responsibility. That’s really what I wanted to write about anyways. I was hoping that if I start writing about it here I’d be able to formulate my thoughts, my words, a lil bit more.
I’m sharing the posts in chronological order. I hope to be able to write more sometime as it’s through putting it down that I’ve begun to understand it. Maybe I’ll write another post (Haha for I’ll share them again for making it make sense to me).
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And this is something I often feel.
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I am so proud of you for reaching out! My people are your people… people who deal with their mental health in a way that makes them WANT to share their stories.
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Thanks 💕💕💕
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Eliza, we all need to set boundaries, to learn to say “no,” and to form a circle of friends. You are doing the work! 🙂 🙂 🙂 ❤ ❤ ❤ Have a great week! *******
I watch my son struggling with his issues, but I see him making progress too. 🙂
It's not easy!
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I’m glad you’re seeing him make progress…
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Thank you, Eliza. ❤ Have a great week! 🙂
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These are some good thoughts Eliza. You wrote that you are drawn to people who are genuine and it sounds like you are just wanting the freedom to be genuine yourself. If your heart isn’t in doing something and you are just going to end up feeling resentful you should absolutely say “no”.
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Yup. I love genuinity. It’s the biggest draw to me. I’m learning that I can say no..m
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Yesterday I wrote a post about saying “no” on a private blog I just started. If you’re interested I can invite you in if you go here and request access http://bywayofsorrow.wordpress.com
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Wow. Just wow… It’s not letting me access when I click on it but that post really touched me. I’m in awe of your bravery…
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Oh trust me I’m not brave but for some reason in that moment because of all the strange dream circumstances I felt God with me. If only I could be in that place more often. Saying “no” has been a lifelong struggle for me. I okayed you’re access hopefully you don’t have any restrictions now. Let me know if you still have an issue.
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I don’t have restrictions from that account but when I open from my email it leads me to the app… so you know… basically I can only open from a different app that I don’t really use at the moment. I’m not really checking up or following blogs at the moment but today I’ve had headspace all day!! I’m glad because I loved seeing what you had to say.
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No worries as long as you saw what you wanted to. 🙂
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saying “no” is hard, but it’s absolutely necessary. it’s great that you’ve learnt (learning?) to say no!! and, you aren’t responsible for many things. claiming that responsibility is a burden, and it’s awesome seeing you letting it go.
prioritize yourself- which you’re doing!! amazing!!
this was a wonderful post. i’m so proud.
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Learning:)
Yeah. I called a friend to tell her about it 🙂
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Saying no and putting boundaries when you need to is healthy! So is creating your own community. This is a good thing.
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Thanks 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
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It’s so good to read this! I’m so glad that you’re learning to create healthy boundaries, and to find an online support network.
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It is…. thank you…
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You know what the funny thing is, Eliza? Saying “no” represents encouraging progress in more than one sense.
For one thing, it invests your “yeses” with much more worth. When we agree to everything, that consent becomes routine and automatic. As such, whatever good there is is diluted. Seriously so. When you think about the request, and say “yes” only some of the time, that really means something. Those affirmations, when you release them, become full, conscious decisions.
Not only that, but it shows a healthy regard for the type of person you are. In saving your cooperation for the right moment, you invest it with vigor. Thus, you give the impulse life. The recipient savors the attention, and you feel good providing it.
Plus, it adds positivity to a world that desperately can use it. The goodness it generates will come back to you (with interest), Eliza!
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Saying no is important!
There’s a quote about how saying no is often more powerful than saying yes…
While I wouldn’t entirely agree, saying no is at least as important as saying yes!
Easing yourself of that responsibility is great, it should never become too heavy to carry
We’ll always be “your people”
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Thanks!!!
How’s your studying going?
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it’s been hectic…but I’m managing somehow
how are you?
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You studying on your own?
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It really is true that once you say yes once when you’re not feeling it, you’re creating room for more issues in the future
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Definitely!!!!!
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